- Date: January 24, 2024
- Topic: Events
- By: Peerspace
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Looking for special 21st birthday ideas for your daughter to throw her a birthday she’ll never forget? We get it! Her 21st birthday is a big deal, especially in the United States, where 21 is the age when young people can legally drink.
For even more inspiration, we’ve also provided you with a few examples of suitable birthday party rental venues that you can book via Peerspace, the largest online marketplace for event venues and other space rentals by the hour. Our platform makes it easy to discover and book amazing venues that suit all of your special occasions, especially occasions as special as a 21st birthday event. Celebrate this major milestone in style with our 12 spectacular 21st-birthday ideas for your daughter.
1. Treat her to a spa day and bond with a bit of pampering
For our first 21st birthday ideas for your daughter, we love the idea of a parent-daughter spa day. More than anything, it’s a chance for the two of you to hang out, enjoy tons of self-care, and have some long conversations as well as plenty of gossip.
Depending on how many plans she’s making, your daughter may not have time for a whole spa day on her 21st birthday itself. But you can still treat her to a trip to the spa some other day that week or in the vicinity of her birthday.
If you happen to live near Sacramento, CA then why not book a couple of hours at this intimate spa and serene wellness retreat venue in Arden-Arcade? It’s a stylish space that will offer you one-on-one time as well as a slew of personalized services, like yoni steaming, mani/pedis, facials, and waxing.
2. Show her the finer things with a wine-tasting birthday party
At least one of the ideas on this list of 21st birthday ideas for daughters should be alcohol-related. After all, one of the most important changes that take place at the age of 21 is being able to drink legally.
Teach your daughter to consume responsibly and with a refined palate, rather than just aiming to get drunk. Plan a wine-tasting outing, whether that’s her entire birthday party or just the two of you. This idea won’t be for every soon-to-be 21-year-old, but if you know that your daughter is a foodie who enjoys trying new things, we’ll bet she will really appreciate the opportunity to try new flavors and learn about wine.
And if you need to rent a space to host your wine-tasting event, consider a venue like this uniquely photogenic wine bar and maker event space in Philadelphia, PA. It’s a two-story venue with an on-site wine bar, as well as additional space for dining, making candles, and more.
A Peerspace user who booked their own birthday party here shared the following review: “Amazing venue great staff they were very patient warm and inviting loved it”
3. Remind her that she doesn’t have to drink
Yes, we did say in #2 that we felt obligated to include an alcohol-related activity on a list like this one. But just because we in the US associate 21st birthdays with getting drunk, it doesn’t mean that the two of you even have to drink at all!
There are plenty of other ways to celebrate. You can volunteer at a food pantry together or take a cooking class together. We also have many more that we’re including on this list of 21st birthday ideas for your daughter ahead!
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4. Plan a precious parent-daughter photoshoot
Rent a photo studio or find a beautiful natural area or scenic garden near you, hire a photographer for a few hours, and do a parent-daughter photoshoot in honor of her turning 21.
You can have the photographer take some candid photos as well as some more formal portraits. Then, once the photos are ready, have some of your favorites printed and framed and give them to your daughter as a memento she’ll treasure for years.
Present your photographer these exciting 21st birthday photoshoot ideas, and they’re sure to be impressed!
5. Indulge her with a birthday vacation
Is there somewhere your daughter has been wanting to go for years? Invite her on a vacation there to celebrate her 21st birthday! You can also keep this idea a little lower budget by taking a “staycation” instead. Stay in your town/city or a nearby one and stay in a fancy hotel, go to local restaurants, and see the sights.
If you’re near Portland, OR, we’d recommend booking the gorgeous Karam Restaurant. You and your daughter can enjoy gourmet Mediterranean cuisine and drinks from the bar if you like, all in a glamorous, high-end setting.
6. Take a cooking class together
Treat your daughter and yourself to a cooking class, especially one that specializes in a type of cuisine that interests her. It’s a hands-on bonding experience and an opportunity to learn something tangible and useful all in one – not to mention to eat delicious food!
If you’re not sure how to find a cooking class near you, rely on Peerspace. We offer you access to the country’s most incredible kitchen space rentals, many of which provide cooking classes and other perks for you and your daughter to enjoy.
7. Hit the road for that long-awaited road trip
This one is similar to the vacation idea but with more emphasis on the driving aspect of the vacation. We wouldn’t recommend this idea for all parents and daughters, but if you know you would get along well spending many hours together on the road, definitely consider taking a road trip together.
8. Let her be a kid for a day at the amusem*nt park
Just because your daughter is a full-grown adult about to turn 21 doesn’t mean that she won’t still enjoy a trip to an amusem*nt park. In fact, we think that harkening back to her favorite childhood activities is a wonderful way to celebrate and have a great time together.
9. Let the creativity begin with a costume party
Even if her birthday’s not anywhere near Halloween, you can still throw her a costume party for her birthday party. In fact, why not have everyone come dressed up in a certain theme? Whether you make the theme a decade (like the 50s or 80s) or something random like forest animals, it’ll definitely be a super fun time.
And if you’re looking for an incredible party venue rental to hold her birthday costume party, then consider booking this warehouse space with a costume shop in Glendale, CA. This colorful and creative event space has more than 4,500 square feet of space that includes an open performance space, a covered entertainment area, and a massive costume shop, perfect for this theme birthday party!
Peerspace reviewers have called it: “Seriously the best fun venue!!!” and “This space was absolutely perfect! Dan our host was extremely helpful and so lovely.”
Be sure to source some inspo from our unique decades party ideas for all eras and styles!
10. Let her enjoy the spotlight with a karaoke party
Perhaps your daughter has a beautiful singing voice, or she just likes to get up and do some karaoke now and then. If so, throw a birthday party where the central activity is karaoke. It is an easy recipe for having a blast and bonding with everyone in attendance.
Make this one easier on yourself and use Peerspace to book a karaoke spot near you! One of our favorites is this sleek, modern karaoke bar in Midtown Manhattan, NYC. It has an amazing ambiance, room for 200 guests, and delectable Japanese and Korean cuisine as optional catering.
11. Picnic at the park/in your backyard
Here’s an idea that’s not only fun but also affordable (since pretty much all you have to pay for is the food and beverages and perhaps a little bit of decor).
Assuming that her birthday takes place at a time of year when the weather is pleasant, there’s nothing better than hanging out on a beautiful day with friends and loved ones. Enjoy the fresh air and sunshine, and eat an excellent meal together al fresco.
Speaking of decor, check out our creative 21st birthday party decoration ideas here!
12. Make it a delicious birthday with a brunch party
One of the activities that 20-somethings these days seem to love most is going out to brunch, and who can blame them?! It’s an opportunity to hang out with friends and eat delicious and fancy breakfast food, ideally in a cute outfit and outside on a sunny day.
You can take your daughter out to brunch at her favorite restaurant, or you can rent a space, like this retro diner in San Francisco, CA. This designer space in Russian Hill can dish out all of her favorite brunch and dinner plates while providing the most perfectly Instagrammable setting for photos. Invite guests and host a brunch birthday party for her and any friends or family she wants to include. This is definitely one of the most fun 21st birthday ideas for your daughter.
21st birthday ideas for daughter: conclusion
We hope these 21st birthday ideas for your daughter have inspired you to plan something epic for her. The easiest way to make it happen is to book an incredible celebration venue on Peerspace!
As you can see, Peerspace offers you access to truly unique spaces that offer specialized services. You can easily find venues like the ones on this list in your city. Simply start your search and see all the gorgeous hidden gem spaces near you that can provide the perfect ambiance and amenities fit for a daughter like yours.
